oge good evening. My name is Adebola, a graduate but unemployed. I'm 25 years of age.I met a male friend recently, in April, on Facebook... He's a Christian, so we got talking. I found out we had most things in common such as Christian background, values, purpose etc.. So, because of that, we got along well... We talk daily, on phone and WhatsApp...Though he usually say, he wish I am his future partner, if God wills... We communicate very well as friends... No strings attached. Although I'm aware he *likes* me for a partner.But, two weeks ago, he forwarded a Christian article to me talking about setting boundaries in friendship while looking for a potential partner., I read it and thanked him for sharing... and before that day, we communicated well on phone n WhatsApp....But, after that day( 2 weeks now) in the morning that he sent that BC to me, he has maintained a distance... Infact, it's so glaring.He stopped calling me...He stopped our usual conversations on WhatsApp...He didn't tell me anything.. He only greets me once a while... He asks how I am, d family and whether I'm maintaining my relationship with the Lord.That's all.. And I also answer him in monosyllables... But, for some days now, he kept mute.I didn't bother to ask him why the change from our usual friendly conversation....so i want to know if I've done any wrong by not asking him why he distanced or withdraw himself... Last Friday, I decided to send him a message on WhatsApp to know how he's doing, and I asked him if there's no problem as it looks like he's so busy...He replied me by saying, he is fine, that I have created a distance.. Which is a lie because he is the one who created the distance..I now ask him if am the one that created the distance and he said Yes... I asked him how? He didn't answer; he only said *Yinmu*..And that's the end of our conversation that day.. I feel like asking him why he created a distance but I just felt within my own self that, I have my integrity and dignity to protect as a woman. if I begin to ask him why he changed, (men could be so funny), he might be nursing it within himself that I'm interested in him and pursuing him, I also played along...I didn't chat with him... And no calls... No talking And I usually see him online... So, it's not that his phone is off...And the truth is, I miss his friendship... because I had a heartbreak before we became friends.. So, I saw him as my good friend...But, with his recent attitude, I began to think whether he's only pretending before... I don't just know what to do ma.please just advice me on what to do.