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"MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life". One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter. Dear Singles, When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things: PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife. POSITION : All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere. Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values. PERCEPTION : In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counseling, from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (Pastors and Relationship coaches). And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER to tell you your size (GOD ALMIGHTY ). "You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage." Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT? Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it. Ask questions -Where is this shoe made from? (Background) -What's the size (Values) -How much (His/Her interest) -How long will it last (His/Her Character) -Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is compatibility) -Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will accept you the way you are) Dear one, remember many are dragging their foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can't know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it'. And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage. God bless us all. SHARE SHARE SHARE 3 minutes ago · Seen 7:00pm · Sent from Messenger

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Sometimes it's very hard to tell one’s intentions towards you. Someone can come into life, they start talking to you day and night. They make you believe and get used to them. They make you believe that they are different from the rest you have ever had. You start finding ways of making things happen. You totally get taken up by that person’s care and love. You start to lean on them and you find your life can't do without that person. You believe in everything they tell you. You get down on your knees and thank God for sending you that HERO. You now ignore other people that are into you. You comfort that person. You be there for him/her. You trust them but then one day they wake up and they start hurting you without thinking twice. They torture your feelings. They break your heart into pieces without thinking of what you have gone through with them. Seriously sometimes I wish there was a way one could identify the REAL SERIOUS PERSON. I wish that person could come with a LABEL on him or her. I wish there were fixed dates for one to know when he/she will be but hurt, chucked and cheated on but no way to tell. Seriously some people are just tourists to our LIVES and HEARTS. They are never to stay forever. They come with a packed mission and when it's done then they show you their true colours or they open up the hurting truth. Some people just enjoy hurting the other but why? Why making someone love you yet you won't stay forever? Why make some give you his/her heart when you are to break it? Why make someone care about you yet you well know you will disappoint him/her? Why using someone for your own benefit? Why making someone cry yet you won't be there to rub his or her tears? Why telling someone that I LOVE YOU yet you don’t mean it or yet you’re in love with someone else? Why doing those dirty things behind someone you claim that you love and care about? Why not being contented with what you have? Why flirting with other people yet you already have someone you love? Why some people don't fear to acquire viral diseases? Why wasting someone's time and energy yet you are to leave him or her? WHY WHY??? My friends be CAREFUL, be careful with your lives, be careful with your delicate bodies, be careful with your delicate hearts, be extra careful with people who tell you that they "love you." Many don't mean it. It's just a common word to them. It's just a word they tell to anyone who is interested in them; it's just like a local song to many people. Stop wasting your TIME, ENERGY, FEELINGS & MONEY to people who aren't willing to waste theirs on you. When someone tells you that they love you take your time to tell them that you "love them too". Stop accepting people to blind you with that word. Take your time to decide as you are testing ones patience and seriousness. Never rush..

Sometimes it's very hard to tell one’s intentions towards you. Someone can come into life, they start talking to you day and night. They make you believe and get used to them. They make you believe that they are different from the rest you have ever had. You start finding ways of making things happen. You totally get taken up by that person’s care and love.
You start to lean on them and you find your life can't do without that person. You believe in everything they tell you. You get down on your knees and thank God for sending you that HERO. You now ignore other people that are into you. You comfort that person. You be there for him/her. You trust them but then one day they wake up and they start hurting you without thinking twice. They torture your feelings. They break your heart into pieces without thinking of what you have gone through with them.
Seriously sometimes I wish there was a way one could identify the REAL SERIOUS PERSON. I wish that person could come with a LABEL on him or her. I wish there were fixed dates for one to know when he/she will be but hurt, chucked and cheated on but no way to tell. Seriously some people are just tourists to our LIVES and HEARTS. They are never to stay forever. They come with a packed mission and when it's done then they show you their true colors  or they open up the hurting truth. Some people just enjoy hurting the other but why?
Why making someone love you yet you won't stay forever? Why make some give you his/her heart when you are to break it? Why make someone care about you yet you well know you will disappoint him/her? Why using someone for your own benefit? Why making someone cry yet you won't be there to rub his or her tears? Why telling someone that I LOVE YOU yet you don’t mean it or yet you’re in love with someone else? Why doing those dirty things behind someone you claim that you love and care about? Why not being contented with what you have? Why flirting with other people yet you already have someone you love? Why some people don't fear to acquire viral diseases? Why wasting someone's time and energy yet you are to leave him or her? WHY WHY???
My friends be CAREFUL, be careful with your lives, be careful with your delicate bodies, be careful with your delicate hearts, be extra careful with people who tell you that they "love you." Many don't mean it. It's just a common word to them. It's just a word they tell to anyone who is interested in them; it's just like a local song to many people. Stop wasting your TIME, ENERGY, FEELINGS & MONEY to people who aren't willing to waste theirs on you. When someone tells you that they love you take your time to tell them that you "love them too". Stop accepting people to blind you with that word. Take your time to decide as you are testing ones patience and seriousness. Never rush..

A lady sent this to my inbox..help me post this to Ogechi Okeke groups.. Your Advice Is Needed But Please NO Insult Biko I will be 30yrs old soon am in a mess and don't know what to do, i actually ended a relationship that lasted for 7yrs last yr because it wasn't working, same last yr a guy started disturbing for another relationship which i never find interesting until February this yr i finally accepted,every giving point in time we see ourselves quarreling and abusing each other i was thinking of how we can come out of it before this disaster, 2 months ago i came across a course mate who wanted me badly then but my ex was allover me then, so we couldn't have anything. now one thing led to the other and i fell for him, the mess now is that am pregnant for him, I don't want an abortion and he doesn't want either. How do i face my boyfriend please i need your advice???

A lady sent this to my inbox..help me post this to Ogechi Okeke groups.. Your Advice Is Needed But Please NO Insult Biko
I will be 30yrs old soon am in a mess and don't know what to do, i actually ended a relationship that lasted for 7yrs last yr because it wasn't working, same last yr a guy started disturbing for another relationship which i never find interesting until February this yr i finally accepted,every giving point in time we see ourselves quarreling and abusing each other i was thinking of how we can come out of it before this disaster, 2 months ago i came across a course mate who wanted me badly then but my ex was allover me then, so we couldn't have anything. now one thing led to the other and i fell for him, the mess now is that am pregnant for him, I don't want an abortion and he doesn't want either. How do i face my boyfriend please i need your advice???

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Hi, my name is Diana and I am 15 year old. I am in SS1 and I have a 17 year old boy friend. I love him very much. Last weekend he asked me to prove my love for him by having sex with him. I am not ready to have sex yet as I am still a virgin, and I am scared but he says it's either we have sex or he will end the relationship. I don't know what to do. Please I need your help.. Thanks. Help me share this .

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Photo Illustration by The Daily Beast THE NOT-SO-PROMISED-LAND Nigerian Students Sue Alabama College for Treating Them ‘Like Animals’ Alabama State University got millions to educate and house exchange students who say they were charged more and given less. M.L. Nestel M.L. Nestel 09.07.16 5:00 AM ET Godsgift Moses, Promise Owei, Thankgod Harold, Success Jumbo, Savior Samuel, and 30 more Nigerian students came to America hoping it would be the promised land. It’s only fitting that “Opportunity is here” is the motto of Alabama State University, listed as one of America’s 100 Historic Black Colleges and Universities, and where they got full scholarships from a Nigerian government fund for four years of education. Instead of getting opportunity, they say the school took their country’s millions and used the money to discriminate against them. In a lawsuit filed last week in federal court, 41 Nigerian nationals—many of whom are now Alabama State University alumni—allege the school overcharged them for books and meals, enrolled them in classes they never took, and more, all because they were black foreigners. “They called us cash cows,” said Jimmy Iwezu, an ASU alum who claims the university intentionally mismanaged millions from a scholarship fund set up by the Nigerian government that was paid in advance for every exchange student. “I’m a black man and I’m proud to be black, but I felt discriminated against.” The 37-year-old social work grad cites the school’s self-proclaimed autonomy to do whatever it wished with the seven-figure sum Nigeria prepaid back in 2013 for some 41 students to go to the school. Attorney Julian McPhillips, who brought the lawsuit to court for the second time—the first attempt, back in April, accused the school of breaching its contract with Nigeria and was dismissed—suggests ASU violated Title VI civil rights. The students allege they were shorted their deserved monies by ASU “because of their Nigerian national origin,” according to the lawsuit. McPhillips contends ASU hammered the students with exorbitant “billing” and they weren’t “being treated like other students” when the school allegedly inflated the costs of staples like books and room and board, and repurposed the funds to pay for the school’s “bond issues” and to help front costs for “a new stadium,” and, ironically, a center for civil rights awareness. “The school acted in a really disingenuous and self-serving way,” McPhillips told The Daily Beast. While most college students are permitted to bargain shop for textbooks wherever they wish or dine at different establishments beyond the school cafeterias, the Nigerian nationals at ASU, according to the federal complaint, were boxed in. The lawsuit claims “they were not allowed by ASU to spend this money, but instead the money was credited towards certain expenses the students incurred, or towards other expenses ASU incurred that were unrelated to the students.” “The school compelled us to buy books from the book store and eat only at the cafeteria,” Iwezu said. “I tried to make them understand, ‘Hey, we don’t want to live in the dorms anymore, and we don’t want to eat our entire meals at the dorms.” He said greed trumped reason. “They want our money,” he said, adding that the surcharge to live on campus was raised specifically for him and his Nigerian counterparts. “They make us pay $3,000 [a semester] to live in the dorms, and that is more than a mortgage on homes in this area. “Enough is enough.” Get The Beast In Your Inbox! Subscribe Back in 2013, Dr. David Iyegha, a geography professor at ASU for almost three decades, made a pilgrimage to Lagos, serving as the school’s ambassador to recruit fellow Nigerians with a mandate to attract its best and brightest to relocate to Montgomery, Alabama, for their higher education. “I went to Nigeria with one other faculty member and recruited these students to be sponsored by the Nigerian federal government,” Iyegha told The Daily Beast. Today he is withered in regret. “I feel very, very bad because I was the one who was instrumental in bringing these students to the campus,” he said. Iyegha, whose son is currently on a Ph.D. track at ASU, feels like he let down so many promising prospects. “[Nigeria] paid for everything, including their books, and all of the money is supposed to be given to the students so they can buy this or that. “But the college refused to release any of that money at all for the past three years.” While the money was prepaid and guaranteed by the Nigerian government, that didn’t grant the school carte blanche on how it was supposed to be spent, he said. “I asked them, ‘Why are you treating these kids like this? Why are you depriving them?’ and after talking to them at length, they told me they spent all the money and there is no money left.” An ASU spokesman told The Daily Beast that “since it’s pending litigation against our university, Alabama State University has no comment.” Meanwhile, the retired 67-year-old academic says he is stunned the school he faithfully served and recruited for shorted these Nigerian nationals. Iyegha said Nigeria allocated approximately $30,000-$35,000 annually for each student to attend fall, spring, and summer semesters. Those funds would also go toward books, room and board, and incidentals. Nigeria “paid in full the entire cost” for the 2014-15 year, but ASU hoarded the money instead of depositing “any excess sponsorship monies into the students’ accounts,” the lawsuit claims. The students were suspicious of the allegedly questionable accounting practices and decided to raise cain with their consulate. In a May 2015 letter addressed to ASU’s president Dr. Gwendolyn Boyd, a special adviser to the former president Goodluck Jonathan named Kingsley Kuku blasted the college for its “discriminatory practices” and for breaching its fiduciary duties. The dignitary empaneled a delegation to head to Montgomery to deal with the financial fracas and demanded that “all credit balances for tuition be carried over for each student and be used as initial deposit for the next semester fees” and that ASU refund “each student” for “all other line items.” After months of inaction, the students’ attorney McPhillips shot back in November, demanding ASU quit the “stonewall” or “continuing silence” and instead “treat them justly from an economic perspective” and refund portions of “tuition, books, room and board, especially for the summer semesters of 2015 and 2016, and all personal expenses not used.” He pointed to Nigerian student Success Jumbo, who had married and was living off-campus and deserved a refund because his government “paid for nearly two years of dormitory expenses on his behalf, even though he has not needed said expense.” In a terse response two months later, Kenneth Thomas, ASU’s general counsel, wrote back stating that the oral agreement between Nigeria and ASU supersedes McPhillips’s clients’ claims. “There is no financial agreement between the University and the individual Nigerian students,” Thomas wrote. That meant the Nigerians’ gripes were frivolous and that if there were any refunds to be had, they would “inure to the Nigerian Government and not to the individual students.” Thus, the school’s counsel wrote, “Alabama State University denies your claim.” While the legal process was underway, the Nigerian students refused to be treated like naive foreigners. They started to school themselves and enterprisingly even traded notes with other students at neighboring schools like Troy State and Alabama University. “We looked at what happens with other students when they are given refunds and compared it to our student accounts,” Kehinde Batife told The Daily Beast. “We would see a refund, but before we could do anything about it, the refund was taken out.” The now 28-year-old criminal justice graduate says he was charged for summer school he never attended, after he had already graduated. “They had me as if I was going to school this summer,” the puzzled graduate said. “I asked them, ‘I graduated in May, so where is the scholarship money my government gives to you?’” And when he called the administration out, he says school administrators quickly denounced him. “They tell me, ‘You’re a resident of the scholarship.’ So they think they can do whatever they want with the money [Nigeria] gives them… I’m not going to let them treat us like animals.” Batife, who is hoping to afford law school to one day, remains irate about ASU’s alleged underhanded tactics. “I’ve been here three years and I’m a super intelligent person,” he said. “I’m not nosy, but I ask questions, and this school thought we don’t know anything and they could do whatever they want to us. “I cannot forget about this and I’m ready to fight the school, even if it means 10 years from now I’m still fighting to get justice.” The fight isn’t about riches either. A victory for Iwezu would be for ASU to pay restitution that can then bankroll future Nigerian students’ higher education in the U.S. “I want justice to prevail, and the remaining money should go to [Nigeria’s] Treasury and make a better life for other Nigerians.” Editor’s Note: The story has been updated to reflect that ASU a Historical Black College and University (HBCU).

The NEWS Wednesday 7th September 2016 x News Politics Business Sports Entertainment Environment Multimedia More SHOP About Us Contact us Advertise With Us Login / Register Search Inside story: How Yewande, Ibadan lawyer killed her husband Feb 7 2016 - 2:51pm Tweet Tweet « PREVIOUS | NEXT » Categorized as Crime Law and Justice LifeStyle Living News Nigerian News Tagged as murder in IbadanOyelowo Oyediran AjanakuYewande FatokiYewande Oyediran A close friend of Oyelowo Oyediran Ajanaku, the 38 year old Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife graduate, killed by his lawyer- wife on 2 February in Ibadan, has thrown some light on what transpired before the tragic crime of passion, that has triggered shock waves, nationwide. From the story, Yewande clearly intended to kill her husband, having stabbed him at two separate occasions, same night, with the last stabbing with a knife, on the neck, a fatal one. Lowo Oyediran Ajanaku: before he was killed by his wife, Yewande Lowo Oyediran Ajanaku: before he was killed by his wife, Yewande Oyelowo Oyediran Ajanaku Popularly called LOWO a successful Nigerian businessman was resident in Paris (France) up until 2014, before his return to Nigeria to settle down with his wife, Yewande Fatoki Oyediran- a lawyer working as a Principal State Counsel at the Ministry of Justice Oyo state Nigeria. He hailed from Osun state Southern Nigeria. He attended Olufi High school- Gbongan Osun state, Lagos State Polytechnic and then proceeded to Obafemi Awolowo University Ile-Ife Osun state Nigeria and further had his MSc from Grenoble Business School, France. The Oyedirans The Oyedirans February 2nd seemed like a regular day or so I thought until I got a text message that Oyelowo was dead. I called his sister in-law (Temitayo) who happened to be my very close friend to confirm and on hearing her wail on the other end of the phone, I discontinued the call. Confused and in shock, I dialled her number again. In tears and with a shaken voice, I asked how it happened. Then she narrated the ordeal amidst tears. “Last night Lowo and his wife Yewande had an argument in their Akobo home in Ibadan, where they reside, over his proposed business trip scheduled for later in the week. Lowo was to travel to Europe for business purposes and then stop over to visit his child (from another woman) who’s also living in Europe with the mother. “This didn’t go well with Yewande I suppose and the squabble continued into late In the night. In the process Yewande stabbed her husband Lowo on the shoulder missing his heart by just few inches. The first stab on the shoulder The first stab on the shoulder “Their neighbour-the Landlord intervened in the matter and took Oyelowo to a nearby hospital for treatment as he bled profusely. After treatment he was released to return home and instructed to rest as he had lost a lot of blood. On arriving home, the Landlord’s son offered Lowo his room to pass the night. But he declined the offer stating clearly that ‘all was fine as he trusted his wife and believed she didn’t mean to harm him’. And Lowo after the fatal stab on the neck And Lowo after the fatal stab on the neck “Few hours later, a shout was heard again: it was the cry of a man in agony. Oyelowo was battling for his life, blood gushing out of his neck and mouth. His wife Yewande had used a knife to stab him once again, unfortunately it was in the neck, a very delicate part of the body. He was whisked to the hospital where he was certified dead on arrival”. “Oyelowo Oyediran Ajanaku was 38yrs old when his wife Yewande Oyediran,Nee Fatoki, stabbed him in the neck with a knife which ultimately led to his untimely death. “I Met Lowo in Obafemi Awolowo University during my undergraduate days. He was a proud African man and he always said it with pride that he was a GBONGAN man. “Describing Oyelowo in simple terms, I would call him a “Good man”, kind, jovial or rather say he’s a Jester, easy going, fun loving and absolutely peaceful. “Lowo had always portrayed the characteristics of a good man to the society and has successfully brought foreign investors to Nigeria such as Aller Aqua a Denmark based company ( Aller Aqua produces fish feed for freshwater and saltwater aquaculture) . ‘He is always there to support anyone that needs help. All he wanted was for people to be happy around him. He was a Positive Impact to the Society. In over 10 years of knowing and relating with him I can’t seem to find any fault in him. Everyone loved being around him, he had charisma. His death has left a massive vacuum in the hearts and lives of his loved ones. He would be greatly missed by his family, friends, associates and loved ones. “We want the world to know because as I write to you, the Family of the wife (the Fatokis’) are doing all in their power to see that this case is covered up. We want Justice to prevail, a grievous crime has been committed. We want the law to take its full course. “This could have happened to anyone, anywhere across the universe. A crime is a crime irrespective of location, race or persons involved, this is a massive test on our judicial system as the world watches the outcome of this through global media.” *If you believe that Lowo must get justice, you are invited to join the campaign using the Hashtag #JUSTICE4LOWO

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Congratulations to the youngest king in Nigeria, His Royal Majesty, Obi Chukwuka Noah (Aniyemeze) Akaeze 1, Obi of Ubulu-Uku Kingdom, on the occasion of the official presentation of the staff of office by the Delta State Government. May your reign bring peace, progress and prosperity to Ubulu-Uku Kingdom.

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Abraham

The  Apple Of Our Eyes
Just like a joke the search began, we looked every where, combed the entire city, desperately looking, frantically searching. we called out your name from street to street, neighborhood to neighborhood, hospital to hospital, Church to Church (your favorite place to be in), we didn't even know you had a special seat close to the choir in that huge Church opposite the house. we were told that You were always present when there was choir practice. We asked everyone that passed by, went from zone to zone, area to area, suburb to suburb. It was announced on the radio and television stations. We went to the police stations and they said they were working on it but did absolutely nothing! (very typical of them). Social media was buzzing with the news. Abraham!! Abraham!! Ab!! day and night, the rain came and then the sun. We would park the car when the night was too dark then set off again when it was dawn to "we knew not where". No sleep for days, the nights were long and the only thing that interrupted the silence amongst us was the sound of cars passing by and the silent whispers in our heads. The voices that whispered the horror you could be facing where ever you were would not let any one even slumber.....everyday we spent on the road searching for you was a torture. Each day came with a fresh and more intense fear gripping our skin like leeches. The fear of the unknown. It went on for days, It was 216 hours of horrific, intensifying, guts eating pain and sorrow. ABRAHAM, where are you? "God please do something!! Even if this is the only prayer you would answer in our life time, please bring Abraham home". Then that morning we were praying in tears and also remembering how Daddy passed away in our arms On the 9th of September, The phone rang yet again  (how we hated that ring tone at the time. it still gives me the shivers) and this time around the caller sounded genuine unlike the others who would call and give us wrong information and addresses (it was fun for some Nigerians). The description!! It was you!! Yes! Yes!! blue jeans, black shirt with white and black collar, an all star trainers, a hat to match and a blue Chelsea boxer (your swag was unbeatable) "Yes that must be him, Oga abeg is he alright"? we asked. "Yes he is, but can someone come to suleja hospital to confirm if he really is the one you are looking for"?, the fellow said. Of course, we will be right there ASAP!! we all said with a little bit of relief (just a tiny bit). But sir, can we at least speak with him to be really sure because we get a lot of false calls from people playing pranks...It was at this point the fellow paused for seconds and told us "Ermm, madam the truth be say the person wey them bring is dead" (in his exact words). God forbid!! that can't be Abraham. We all rebuked. But in our minds, this was the fear that stirred constantly. We just didn't want to hear it. No way!! we can't find you dead!! Besides, suleja is miles away from garki. Many miles away from the house, so how can he possibly be found there. Dead. We began to find excuses just to keep ourselves in denial that it can't be you in the morgue. You left the house to play just outside with your friends.You were full of life and smiles so genuine. Your dentition as perfect as it can be. You were a happy child and loved by all. You were so cheerful you would always put a smile on anyone's face. No!! You can't be dead. You loved God so much and you always sang praises to Him. A worshipper as young as you were. God would not let anything happen to you, let alone leave you to the wickedness and cruelty of this world and let the cold hands of death snatch you without any warning. Just like that? No way!! All these and more went through our minds while Oche, Uncle Abraham (blessed memory) and some others went to suleja. We kept praying with fear and trembling, this time around begging God it was not you as opposed to the initial prayer to find you. Then the phone rang and it was confirmed!! "Abraham ne, Anu ne" Oche said. It was you Abraham..... It was you Ab. Your body was Laid down in the morgue.

I couldn't find my breath I had to clutch my throat and gasp for air, taking long deliberate breaths .................my world crumbled. I couldn't find my tears, I wanted to curse, I wanted to be angry with God but where was my voice? I lost it! I lost everything!! I went numb

It's 4years already and I still can't see any sense in the way and manner life was snuffed out of you. Life has not and can never remain the same.

How did it happen?
Who did it ?
It was obviously painful seeing from your mutilated body.
What second did you breath your last?
What was on your mind? (you would have said to yourself that the ones who loved you will come and save you)
Why did it happen?
We prayed day and night, fasted! Did God not hear us? Even if not for our sake, for your sake and for your innocence. Because your heart was pure and you were blameless. You were just a little boy. You couldn't even hurt a fly.

These and more haunting questions run through our minds day and night. No answers yet!! None!! And that hurts even more............
Waiting for God to avenge your death. With our eyes we would behold the judgement of the wicked.
Rest on Abraham.
Til we meet again.

No one is too old or too young to die.
Love. Forgive. Live.

she lost her life to cancer..type rip..if u have a heart

he said i am his one and only, not knowing that he is gay, after our wedding night i discovered that my husband have been sleeping with my gate man , my gate man said that my husband told him the he will build a house for him and train all his kids in school that was why he agreed with his offer..this has been happening for over a year now..guys if u are in my shoes what do u do..

i just found out that my husband to be have two wife's with 6 kids..and our wedding is in 7days time...should i continue with the wedding or call off the engagement , i am in a state of confusion right now..what should i do..men why are u guys so heartless

how do i look..pls i need a husband if u think i look good..

Before you sleep or scroll down If you can type Amen in 3 seconds, God will Surprise you with anything you want by tomorrow. I know 98% will Ignore this thinking that its a Joke. God bless you as you type Amen. Like n Share to friends

Before you sleep or scroll down
If you can type
Amen in 3 seconds, God will
Surprise you with
anything you want by
tomorrow. I know 98% will
Ignore this thinking that its a Joke.
God bless you as you type Amen.
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i trusted u, and u international infected me with h.i.v.. all u could tell me was that if u would have told  me that u had h.i.v.., i wont have agree to date u or marry u,, but i have a message for u, u see all  those ur brothers that wanted to have sex with me, hahahahahaha, don;t be surprised that i had sex with almost all of them because i wont live like this because of ur wickedness and selfishness ..ask john ur elder brother why he called me crying after visiting his doctor, also ur junior brother the same question , including ur two cousins..matchhhhh, mission accomplish,,go to hell to any one that will open his or her mouth and judge me..

a friend of mine invited to their church because i was having issues with getting  job and many things beyond my control..the first day i went to that church, pastor James told me to see him after service that i need a special prayer, and he said many things that were bordering  me at that moment, so i said he may be a solution to my problems, after service i went to his office,like he stated, as soon as i walked in he said many things and asked me to come back to his church  for midnight prayer, reaching there he was the only person in the church, i asked him where are other members, he said he cancel the midnight service but he decided to wait here because he knew i was coming for the first time..when he started praying for me he said that the hold spirit told him that he should have sex with me , that is the only way i can be free from what am facing right now..it took me over one hour to reason with his ideas..to cut the long story short i end up having sex with him, that night he had sex with me over 6 times..i was even tried of having sex, but he kept telling me that we have to have it up-to 7times..i agreed because i needed to be free from what am passing true, after all said and done, i became pregnant, when i called him , he said that i should not mention his name that he will give me money to abort the babe, i agreed, reaching where to abort the baby the doctor told me that i am having triplet, that he advice me to keep the bebeis, i told him my story , he called the pastor to come to his office which he did, after telling him what was on the ground he kept quiet for over 10mints and shaked his head and asked the doctor what do i do..i don't want my church members to know and i love my wife , the doctor told me to step outside, after their discussion, he took me home on our way going home, he told me to keep the babe that he will take care of us..is over 5 months now i have not heard from him, if i call him he said i will call u back and he will never return my calls, ..OGECHI OKEKE MY QUESTION BECOMES WHAT DO I DO, DO I GO BACK TO THE CHURCH AND INFORM THEM WHAT IS GOING ON OR DO I KEEP IT TO MY SELF, I WONDER HOW I COULD TAKE CARE OF THESE THREE CHILDREN ..PLS I NEED U TO POST THIS ON YOUR PAGE, I AM ONE OF UR GROUP MEMBER PLS DO NOT SHOW MY NAMES..I NEED U PEOPLE ADVICE, WHAT DO I DO..I AM DYING IN SILENCES      

is it wise to deny ur husband sex when he need it, even when u are not in the mood?

Igbo ndioma ana m ekene unu oo Nke onye chiri ya zere Onye wetara oji wetara ndu, Ogonogo ndu na-ahu isike kanyi na-ayo Chukwu okike abiama. Mmmm! mmm !! Anambra bia taa oji, Enugu bia taa oji Abia taa oji Imo taa oji Asaba taa oji Ndi Biafra nine bianu taa oji Igbo-ukwu be nna m taanu oji. Anyi nine ga-atata ogonogo ndu, tata ahu isike, tatakwa aku na uba ya na nwere onwe nke ndi Biafra na-aha nke nna na nke nwa na mmuo nso...Amen Happy mba month to u all #Ugo-nwachinemere#

Igbo ndioma ana m ekene unu oo

Nke onye chiri ya zere

Onye wetara oji wetara ndu,

Ogonogo ndu na-ahu isike kanyi na-ayo Chukwu okike abiama.

Mmmm! mmm !!

Anambra bia taa oji,

Enugu bia taa oji

Abia taa oji

Imo taa oji

Asaba taa oji

Ndi Biafra nine bianu taa oji

Igbo-ukwu be nna m taanu oji.

Anyi nine ga-atata ogonogo ndu, tata ahu isike, tatakwa aku na uba ya na nwere onwe nke ndi Biafra na-aha nke nna na nke nwa na mmuo nso...Amen

Happy mba month to u all

#Ugo-nwachinemere#

welcome me in this group or i will leave and never return..this is my last warning

name someone u will like to see wear this wedding dress before this year end..

how many of u ladies would like to get pregnant before wedding..guys do u prefer to in-pregnant your partner before marriage? if yes, y, if no y.... be honest

News navigation Sections Paris restaurant 'refuses to serve Muslim women' 28 August 2016 From the section Europe Share A woman wearing a Muslim headscarf stands outside France's top administrative court in Paris (Aug. 26, 2016)Image copyright AP A video showing a restaurateur in a Paris suburb apparently refusing to serve two Muslim women has sparked anger in France and calls for protest. In the video, widely shared on social media, the man tells the hijab-wearing women: "Terrorists are Muslims and all Muslims are terrorists." The incident took place at Le Cenacle restaurant in Tremblay-en-France on Saturday night. On Sunday, the man apologised to a group who had gathered outside. He said he had "got out of hand" due to the current tensions around the issue of wearing burkinis on French beaches, but also because he had a friend who had died at the Bataclan concert centre attack last November, Le Parisien reported (in French). The local prosecutors' office told the paper that it had opened an investigation into racial discrimination. ◾Burkini ban: What do Muslim women think? ◾French Muslims fear state aims to control their faith ◾Burkini beach row puts French values to the test A journalist from the paper photographed the "tense exchange" outside the restaurant between the man involved in the incident and a group of young men: The video inside the restaurant appears to have been covertly filmed by one of the women, who were clearly emotional. "We don't want to be served by racists," one of them said. The man retorted: "Racists don't kill people." He also said: "I don't want people like you at my place. Full stop." Government Minister Laurence Rossignol said that she had asked Dilcra, a government anti-racism body, to investigate, describing the behaviour as "intolerable". A court ruling on Friday overturned France's controversial burkini ban on civil liberties grounds, but some local authorities have vowed to keep it in place. French anti-Islamophobia organisation CCIF said that "following the umpteenth Islamophobic incident which... led to the humiliation of two young Muslim women" its director would be speaking outside the local mosque on Sunday evening. The CCIF, which says it is offering legal and psychological support to the two young women, appealed for no protests outside the restaurant itself. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What French law says on secularism and religious clothing ◾In 2010, France became the first European country to ban the full-face veil in public ◾A 2004 law forbids the wearing of religious emblems in schools and colleges ◾The 1905 constitution aims to separate Church and state. It enshrines secularism in education but also guarantees the freedom of religion and freedom to exercise it. The original text made no reference to clothing

A shocking new report about how Nigerian women are being trafficked and tricked into prostitution in Europe is out. Nigerian women working as prostitutes in the North area of Turin Nigerian women working as prostitutes in the North area of Turin According to Dailymail, these Nigerian women Nigerian are being trafficked to Italy hoping for a better life but often end up working the streets as prostitutes. Their plight has however been highlighted by Paris-based photographer Elena Perlino, originally from Italy, who began to notice the presence of young African women working on the streets during her commutes from Turin. Elena Perlino said: ‘I decided to start from this surreal vision to tell a story. I have been working on the topic for several years, focusing mainly on the Italian connection.’ According to the new report, Eighty per cent of women trafficked to Italy come from Benin City, Edo State, in south Nigeria. It is also shocking to note that the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime declared Nigeria among the top eight countries with the highest human trafficking rates in the world. READ ALSO: TROUBLE IN PARADISE: Abuja Commercial Sex Workers Given Ultimatum The new report made it known that these unsuspecting young girls in a search for greener pasture get tricked by some big aunties who are in the business of human trafficking talk to them, talking them into traveling to foreign countries to do honest jobs like cleaners and so on but get disappointed immediately they get there. As they arrive there knowing that they have massive debts to pay off and are expected to pay back the traveling fees the ‘aunt’ (traffickers) spent on them. Traffickers demand an average more than 50,000 euros (US $60,000) for travel expenses and accommodation, with the women having to work as prostitutes until their debts are paid off. ‘They are forced into prostitution and are now increasingly reinventing themselves as madams or working for the traffickers, also trafficking men, children for adoptions and organs and drug dealing. ‘These are the activities of the powerful Nigerian mafia, which is also involved in arms dealing. What has changed is that the madams are now less violent towards the girls, having understood that if they mistreat them the girls run away: the girls forced into the sex industry now get to keep a little of the money they earn and this makes their lives a little bit more tolerable. ‘As they cannot find a real way out, they get used to life as prostitutes and prostitution becomes their only source of income”, Claudio Magnabosco, former official of the European Parliament explained. Here are some photos explaining the lives of Nigerian women prostituting abroad